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How to Love Unconditionally

Source: iloveulove

From “Friendship with God

How can I love

unconditionally and unlimitedly?


The first step in being fully loving is that you must fully love your Self. And this you cannot do so long as you believe that you were born in sin, and are basically evil.

If you believe that humans are by nature non-trustworthy and evil, you will create a society that supports that view, then enact laws, approve rules, adopt regulations, and impose restraints that are justified by it.

If you believe that humans are by nature trustworthy and good, you will create an entirely different kind of society, in which laws, rules, regulations, and restraints are rarely required. The first society will be freedom limiting, the second, freedom giving.

God is fully loving because God is fully free. To be fully free is to be fully joyful, because full freedom creates the space for every joyful experience. Freedom is the basic nature of God. It is also the basic nature of the human soul. The degree to which you are not fully free is the degree to which you are not fully joyful and that is the degree to which you are not fully loving.

To be totally loving means to be fully free.

We should allow everyone to be able to do anything they want.

That is how God loves. God allows everyone to do anything they want.

It is normal in your society to punish. It is abnormal in your society to simply allow a consequence to assert itself to reveal itself.

Punishments are your announcement that you are too impatient to await a natural outcome. Punishments are someone else’s decision that one has done wrong.

Consequences are one’s own experience that something does not work. That is, it did not produce an intended result.

In other words, we do not learn quickly from punishments, because we see them as something that someone else is doing to us. We learn more readily from consequences, because we see them as something that we are doing to ourselves.

The biggest punishment that you have devised is the withholding of your love. You have shown your offspring that if they behave in a certain way, you will withhold your love. It is by the granting and the withholding of your love that you have sought to regulate and modify, to control and to create, your children’s behaviors.

This is something that God would never do.

True love never withdraws itself. And that is what loving fully means.

I am love. One does not have to practice what one is, one simply is it.

I am the love that knows no condition, nor limitation of any kind.

I am totally loving, and to be totally loving means to be willing to give every mature sentient being total freedom to be, do, and have that which they wish.

Even if you know it will be bad for them?

It is not for you to decide that for them.

Not even for our children?

If they are mature sentient beings, no. If they are grown children, no. And if they are not yet mature, the fastest way to lead them to their own maturity is to allow them the freedom to make as many choices as possible as early as practical.

This is what love does. Love lets go. That which you call need, and which you often confuse with love, does the opposite. Need holds on. This is the way you can tell the difference between love and need. Love lets go, need holds on.

So to be totally loving, I let go?

Among other things, yes. Let go of expectation, let go of requirements and rules and regulations that you would impose on your loved ones. For they are not loved if they are restricted. Not totally.

Nor are you; you do not love yourself totally when you restrict yourself, when you grant yourself less than total freedom, in any matter.

Yet remember that choices are not restrictions. So do not call the choices you have made restrictions. And lovingly provide for your offspring, and all your loved ones, all the information that you feel you may have, to help them make good choices – “good” being defined here as those choices most likely to produce a particular desired result, as well as what you know to be their largest desired result: a happy life.

Share what you know about that. Offer what you have come to understand. Yet do not seek to impose your ideas, your rules, your choices upon another and do not withhold your love should another make choices you would not make. Indeed, if you believe their choices to have been poor ones, that is precisely the time to show your love.

That is compassion, and there is no higher expression.

What else does it mean to be totally loving?

It means to be fully present, in every single moment. To be fully aware. To be fully open, honest, transparent. It means to be fully willing, to express the love that is in your heart full out. To be fully loving means to be fully naked, without hidden agenda or hidden motive, without hidden anything.

And you say that it is possible for human beings, for regular people like me, to achieve such love? This is something of which we are all capable?

It is more than that of which you are capable. It is that which you are. This is the nature of Who You Are. The most difficult thing that you do is to deny that. And you are doing this difficult thing every day. It is why your life feels so difficult. Yet when you do the easy thing, when you decide to come from, to be, Who You Really Are – which is pure love, unlimited and unconditioned-then your life becomes easy again. All the turmoil disappears, all the struggle goes away.

This peace may be achieved in any given moment. The way to it may be found by asking a simple question:

What would love do now?

This is a marvelous question, because you will always know the answer. It is like magic. It is cleansing, like a soap. It takes the worry out of being close. It washes away all doubt, all fear. It bathes the mind with the wisdom of the soul.

What a good way of putting that.

It is true. When you ask this question, you will know instantly what to do. In any circumstance, under any condition, you will know. You will be given the answer. You are the answer, and asking the question brings forth that part of you.

Do not second-guess this answer when it instantly comes to you. When you second-guess is when you fool yourself – and can make a fool of yourself. Go into the heart of love, and come from that place in all your choices and decisions, and you will find peace.

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The Little Soul & The Sun





Simply the best and most transforming children book ever written.Perfect gift for your kids! I love it very much!

Copied from: iloveyoulove

“The Little Soul and the Sun”
by Neale Donald Walsch
Illustrated by Frank Riccio


Once upon no time there was a Little Soul who said to God, “I know who I am!”

And God said, “That’s wonderful! Who are you?”

And the Little Soul shouted, “I’m the Light!”

God smiled a big smile, “That’s right!” God exclaimed. “You are the Light.”

The Little Soul was so happy, for it had figured out what all the souls in the Kingdom were there to figure out. “Wow,” said the Little Soul, “this is really cool!”

But soon, knowing who it was was not enough. The Little Soul felt stirrings inside, and now wanted to be who it was. And so the Little Soul went back to God (which is not a bad idea for all souls who want to be Who They Really Are) and said, “Hi, God! Now that I know Who I Am, is it okay for me to be it?”

And God said, “You mean you want to be Who You Already Are?

“Well,” replied the Little Soul, “it’s one thing to know Who I Am, and another thing altogether to actually be it. I want to feel what it’s like to be the Light!”

“But you already are the Light,” God repeated, smiling again.

“Yes, but I want to see what that feels like!” cried the Little Soul.

“Well,” said God with a chuckle, “I suppose I should have known. You always were the adventuresome one.” Then God’s expression changed. “There’s only one thing…”

“What?” asked the Little Soul.

“Well, there is nothing else but the Light. You see, I created nothing but what you are; and so, there is no easy way for you to experience yourself as Who You Are, since there is nothing that you are not.”

“Huh?” said the Little Soul, who was not a little confused.

“Think of it this way,” said God. “You are like a candle in the Sun. Oh, you’re there all right. Along with a million, ka-gillion other candles who make up the Sun. And the sun would not be the Sun without you. Nay, it would be a sun without one of its candles…and that would not be the Sun at all; for it would not shine as brightly. Yet, how to know yourself as the Light when you are amidst the Light–that is the question.”

“Well,” the Little Soul perked up, “you’re God. Think of something!”

Once more God smiled. “I already have,” God said. “Since you cannot see yourself as the Light when you are in the Light, we’ll surround you with darkness.”

“What’s darkness?” the Little Soul asked.

God replied, “It is that which you are not.”

“Will I be afraid of the dark?” cried the Little Soul.

“Only if you choose to be,” God answered. “There is nothing, really, to be afraid of, unless you decide that there is. You see, we are making it all up. We are pretending.”

“Oh,” said the Little Soul, and felt better already.

Then God explained that, in order to experience anything at all, the exact opposite of it will appear.

“It is a great gift,” God said, “because without it, you could not know what anything is like. You could not know Warm without Cold, Up without Down, Fast without Slow. You could not know Left without Right, Here without There, Now without Then.”

“And so,” God concluded, “when you are surrounded with darkness, do not shake your fist and raise your voice and curse the darkness. Rather be a Light unto the darkness, and don’t be mad about it. Then you will know Who You Really Are, and all others will know, too. Let your Light shine so that everyone will know how special you are!”

“You mean it’s okay to let others see how special I am?” asked the Little Soul.

“Of course!” God chuckled. “It’s very okay! But remember, ‘special’ does not mean ‘better.’ Everybody is special, each in their own way! Yet many others have forgotten that. They will see that it is okay for them to be special only when you see that it is okay for you to be special.”

“Wow,” said the Little Soul, dancing and skipping and laughing and jumping with joy. “I can be as special as I want to be!”

“Yes, and you can start right now,” said God, who was dancing and skipping and laughing right along with the Little Soul.

“What part of special do you want to be?”

“What part of special?” the Little Soul repeated. “I don’t understand.”

“Well,” God explained, “being the Light is being special, and being special has a lot of parts to it. It is special to be kind. It is special to be gentle. It is special to be creative. It is special to be patient. Can you think of any other ways it is special to be?”

The Little Soul sat quietly for a moment. “I can think of lots of ways to be special!” the Little Soul then exclaimed. “It is special to be helpful. It is special to be sharing. It is special to be friendly. It is special to be considerate of others!”

“Yes!” God agreed, “and you can be all of those things, or any part of special you wish to be, at any moment. That’s what it means to be the Light.”

“I know what I want to be, I know what I want to be!” the Little Soul announced with great excitement. “I want to be the part of special called ‘forgiving’. Isn’t it special to be forgiving?”

“Oh, yes,” God assured the Little Soul. “That is very special.”

“Okay,” said the Little Soul. “That’s what I want to be. I want to be forgiving. I want to experience myself as that.”

“Good,” said God, “but there’s one thing you should know.”

The Little Soul was becoming a bit impatient now. It always seemed as though there were some complication.

“What is it?” the Little Soul sighed.

“There is no one to forgive.”

“No one?” The Little Soul could hardly believe what had been said.

“No one!” God repeated. “Everything I have made is perfect. There is not a single soul in all creation less perfect than you. Look around you.”

It was then that the Little Soul realized a large crowd had gathered. Souls had come from far and wide ~ from all over the Kingdom ~ for the word had gone forth that the Little Soul was having this extraordinary conversation with God, and everyone wanted to hear what they were saying. Looking at the countless other souls gathered there, the Little Soul had to agree. None appeared less wonderful, less magnificent, or less perfect than the Little Soul itself. Such was the wonder of the souls gathered around, and so bright was their Light, that the Little Soul could scarcely gaze upon them.

“Who, then, to forgive?” asked God.

“Boy, this is going to be no fun at all!” grumbled the Little Soul. “I wanted to experience myself as One Who Forgives. I wanted to know what that part of special felt like.”

And the Little Soul learned what it must feel like to be sad. But just then a Friendly Soul stepped forward from the crowd.

“Not to worry, Little Soul,” the Friendly Soul said, “I will help you.”

“You will?” the Little Soul brightened. “But what can you do?”

“Why, I can give you someone to forgive!”

“You can?”

“Certainly!” chirped the Friendly Soul. “I can come into your next lifetime and do something for you to forgive.”

“But why? Why would you do that?” the Little Soul asked. “You, who are a Being of such utter perfection! You, who vibrate with such a speed that it creates a Light so bright that I can hardly gaze upon you! What could cause you to want to slow down your vibration to such a speed that your bright Light would become dark and dense? What could cause you ~ who are so light that you dance upon the stars and move through the Kingdom with the speed of your thought–to come into my life and make yourself so heavy that you could do this bad thing?”

“Simple,” the Friendly Soul said. “I would do it because I love you.”

The Little Soul seemed surprised at the answer.

“Don’t be so amazed,” said the Friendly Soul, “you have done the same thing for me. Don’t you remember? Oh, we have danced together, you and I, many times. Through the eons and across all the ages have we danced. Across all time and in many places have we played together. You just don’t remember.”

“We have both been All Of It. We have been the Up and the Down of it, the Left and the Right of it. We have been the Here and the There of it, the Now and the Then of it. We have been the male and the female, the good and the bad; we have both been the victim and the villain of it.”

“Thus have we come together, you and I, many times before; each bringing to the other the exact and perfect opportunity to Express and to Experience Who We Really Are. And so,” the Friendly Soul explained further, “I will come into your next lifetime and be the ‘bad one’ this time. I will do something really terrible, and then you can experience yourself as the One Who Forgives.”

“But what will you do?” the Little Soul asked, just a little nervously, “that will be so terrible?”

“Oh,” replied the Friendly Soul with a twinkle, “we’ll think of something.”

Then the Friendly Soul seemed to turn serious, and said in a quiet voice, “You are right about one thing, you know.”

“What is that?” the Little Soul wanted to know.

“I will have to slow down my vibration and become very heavy to do this not-so-nice thing. I will have to pretend to be something very unlike myself. And so, I have but one favor to ask of you in return.”

“Oh, anything, anything!” cried the Little Soul, and began to dance and sing, “I get to be forgiving, I get to be forgiving!”

Then the Little Soul saw that the Friendly Soul was remaining very quiet.

“What is it?” the Little Soul asked. “What can I do for you? You are such an angel to be willing to do this for me!”

“Of course this Friendly Soul is an angel!” God interrupted. “Everyone is! Always remember: I have sent you nothing but angels.”

And so the Little Soul wanted more than ever to grant the Friendly Soul’s request. “What can I do for you?” the Little Soul asked again.

“In the moment that I strike you and smite you,” the Friendly Soul replied, “in the moment that I do the worst to you that you could possible imagine ~ in that very moment…”

“Yes?” the Little Soul interrupted, “yes…?”

“Remember Who I Really Am.”

“Oh, I will!” cried the Little Soul, “I promise! I will always remember you as I see you right here, right now!”

“Good,” said the Friendly Soul, “because, you see, I will have been pretending so hard, I will have forgotten myself. And if you do not remember me as I really am, I may not be able to remember for a very long time. And if I forget Who I Am, you may even forget Who You Are, and we will both be lost. Then we will need another soul to come along and remind us both of Who We Are.”

“No, we won’t!” the Little Soul promised again. “I will remember you! And I will thank you for bringing me this gift ~ the chance to experience myself as Who I Am.”

And so, the agreement was made. And the Little Soul went forth into a new lifetime, excited to be the Light, which was very special, and excited to be that part of special called Forgiveness.

And the Little Soul waited anxiously to be able to experience itself as Forgiveness, and to thank whatever other soul made it possible. And at all the moments in that new lifetime, whenever a new soul appeared on the scene, whether that new soul brought joy or sadness–and especially if it brought sadness–the Little Soul thought of what God had said.

“Always remember,” God had smiled, “I have sent you nothing but angels.”

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A Glass Of Milk – Segelas Susu

Source: llerrah.com 

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry.

He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, “How much do I owe you?” “You don’t owe me anything,” she replied. “Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness.” He said….. “Then I thank you from my heart.”As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was stronger also. He had been ready to give up and quit.

Years later, that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, the light of recognition filled his eyes. Immediately, he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room.

Dressed in his doctor’s gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room even more determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to her case.After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, and then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill.

She read these words, paid in full with one glass of milk.・(Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly.

Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: Thank you Lord, that your love has spread through human hearts and hands.


Suatu hari, seorang anak lelaki miskin yang hidup dari menjual
asongan dari pintu ke pintu, menemukan bahwa dikantongnya hanya
tersisa beberapa sen uangnya, dan dia sangat lapar.
     Anak lelaki tersebut memutuskan untuk meminta makanan dari
rumah berikutnya. Akan tetapi anak itu kehilangan keberanian saat
seorang wanita muda membuka pintu rumah. Anak itu tidak jadi meminta
makanan, ia hanya berani meminta segelas air.   Wanita muda tersebut
melihat, dan berpikir bahwa anak lelaki tersebut pastilah lapar,
oleh karena itu ia membawakan segelas besar susu.   Anak lelaki itu
meminumnya dengan lambat, dan kemudian bertanya, “berapa saya harus
membayar untuk segelas besar susu ini ?” Wanita itu menjawab:
“Kamu tidak perlu membayar apapun”. “Ibu kami mengajarkan untuk
tidak menerima bayaran untuk kebaikan” kata wanita itu

Anak lelaki itu kemudian menghabiskan susunya dan
berkata :” Dari dalam hatiku aku berterima kasih pada anda.”
Bertahun-tahun kemudian, wanita muda tersebut mengalami sakit yang
sangat kritis. Para dokter dikota itu sudah tidak sanggup
menganganinya. Mereka akhirnya mengirimnya ke kota besar, dimana
terdapat dokter spesialis yang mampu menangani penyakit langka

Dr. Howard dipanggil untuk melakukan pemeriksaan.
Pada saat ia mendengar nama kota asal si wanita tersebut, terbersit
seberkas pancaran aneh pada mata Dr. Howard. Segera ia bangkit dan
bergegas turun melalui hall rumahsakit, menuju kamar si wanita

Dengan berpakaian jubah kedokteran ia menemui si
wanita itu.   Ia langsung mengenali wanita itu pada sekali pandang.
Ia kemudian kembali ke ruang konsultasi dan memutuskan untuk
melakukan upaya
 terbaik untuk menyelamatkan nyawa wanita itu. Mulai hari itu, Ia
selalu memberikan perhatian khusus pada kasus wanita itu.
Setelah melalui perjuangan yang panjang, akhirnya diperoleh
kemenangan.. . Wanita itu sembuh !!. Dr. Howard meminta bagian
keuangan rumah sakit untuk mengirimkan seluruh tagihan biaya
pengobatan kepadanya untuk persetujuan. Dr. Howard melihatnya, dan
menuliskan sesuatu pada pojok atas lembar tagihan, dan kemudian
mengirimkannya ke kamar pasien.      

Wanita itu takut untuk membuka
tagihan tersebut, ia sangat yakin bahwa ia tak akan mampu membayar
tagihan tersebut walaupun harus diangsur seumur hidupnya. Akhirnya
Ia memberanikan diri untuk membaca tagihan tersebut, dan ada sesuatu
yang menarik perhatiannya pada pojok atas lembar tagihan tersebut.
Ia membaca tulisan yang berbunyi..”Telah dibayar lunas dengan
segelas besar susu !!” tertanda, Dr. Howard Kelly.      

Air mata
kebahagiaan membanjiri matanya. Ia berdoa:
“Tuhan, Terima kasih, bahwa cintamu telah memenuhi
 seluruh bumi melalui hati dan tangan manusia.”

 Tears of Joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart
 prayed : “Thank you Lord, that your love has
 spread through human hearts and hands”
 ~Margi Harrell~

Mengapa Cincin Pernikahan Harus Ditaruh di Jari Manis??

Mengapa Cincin Pernikahan Harus Ditaruh di Jari Manis??
Ikuti langkah berikut ini, Tuhan benar2 membuat keajaiban (ini
berasal dari kutipan Cina)

 1.        Pertama, tunjukkan telapak tangan anda, jari tengah ditekuk
ke dalam (lihat gambar)
 2.        Kemudian, 4 jari yang lain pertemukan ujungnya.
 3.        Permainan dimulai , 5 pasang jari tetapi hanya 1 pasang
yang tidak terpisahkan…
 4.         Cobalah membuka ibu jari anda, ibu jari mewakili orang
tua, ibu jari bisa dibuka karena semua manusia mengalami sakit dan
mati.  Dengan demikian orang tua kita akan meninggalkan kita suatu
hari nanti.
 5.        Tutup kembali ibu jari anda, kemudian buka jari telunjuk
anda, jari telunjuk mewakili kakak dan adik anda, mereke memiliki
keluarga sendiri, sehingga mereka juga akan meninggalkan kita.
 6.        Sekarang tutup kembali jari telunjuk anda, buka jari
kelingking, yang mewakili anak2.  cepat atau lambat anak2 juga akan
meninggalkan kita.
 7.        selanjutnya, tutup jari kelingking anda, bukalah jari manis
anda tempat dimana kita menaruh cincin perkawinan anda, anda akan
heran karena jari tersebut tidak akan bisa dibuka. Karena jari manis
mewakili suami dan istri, selama hidup anda dan pasangan anda akan
terus melekat satu sama lain.

 Real love will stick together ever and forever

 Thumb represent parents
 Second finger represent brothers & sisters
 Centre finger represent own self
 Fourth finger represent your partner
 Last finger represent your children

Reality of Love and Fear

“please use your discrimination and judgment in assessing this material. If something rings true to you, fine. If something does not resonate, please leave it behind, for we would not wish to be a stumbling block for any”.


Our entire universe and everything in it, was created by a God of love to provide us a beautiful planet, created in perfection, for us to experience life in all of its many forms.

But because of manipulation, ignorance, not knowing, we created a world of chaos and fear, and a God of fear. A God who wants vengeance and wrath who will punish us if we do anything wrong and send us to hell to burn for eternity.

That is the illusion, because fear is an illusion. It was created to provide the duality.

Truth: Love is all there is. Love is reality. The saying that love makes the world go round is very true because love permeates everything in our lives, in our world, perhaps without our even realizing it.

Fear is the illusion. Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real. Since fear is an illusion, it can also be removed from our world with a thought, a change in attitude or perception.

Since duality is ending, so is the fear or the need for it.

It’s all in the perception, attitude, learned beliefs that were part of the illusion. We have already shown you in the World of Reality and the World of Illusion that things we were lead to believe are true or lies are not what we thought they were.

Leaving you totally disillusioned was not the goal. Helping you find truth was the real or true goal. One can’t find truth unless the illusion is exposed and removed.

To help people understand, to help us remember, we need real truth now.

Providing truth in this section will help remove more of the illusion. This section will be mainly focused on personal issues in our lives that cause us the most trouble…love and fear are major ones.

Truth: We are all part of the One, part of the Prime Creator who created the many universes, and everything that is in existence everywhere, regardless if it is universes, galaxies, solar systems, stars, planets, rocks, trees, animals, vegetation, and beings of every size, shape, color, description, not just humans, but who are all part of the Prime Source to be Co-Creators.

Prime Creator wanted to experience life, and created everything that is, so He/She would be able to experience it ALL through His/Her creations. We are part of that creation.

We each have a fragment of the Prime Creator that is immortal, that can never die, and that is Who We Really Are. Our external bodies may die, but not Who We Really Are.

The Earth is a showplace, a beautiful planet with a diverse variety of people, cultures, religions, animals, birds, trees, plants, vegetation to add to the experience and diversity of life. The more diverse it is, the greater the opportunity to experience a vast number of very different lives on our path to remember Who We Really Are.

What we have on Earth is unique, unusual. Most planets do not have duality or a place to experience the diversity of life in all of its many forms like we do.

In our world of duality, we had many obstacles put in place. One big one was removing our conscious memory of who we really are so we forgot we were part of the One. We did not lose our subconscious memory. On a subconscious level we remember everything that has ever happened to us, in this life, and every other life, back to the beginning of our creation. The subconscious memory is actually our soul essence that goes with us from life time to life time.

In the near future, we will have the veil totally removed so we will be able to remember it all, clear back to the very beginning of our creation.

After each life, we went to the beyond and unlearned some of these errors, and tried again, but with a new experience, hoping that this next one would give us the answers in which we were seeking…to remember Who We Really Are.

We are also provided guides, Guardian Angels, to protect us and help guide us in the right direction.

While living in the World of Illusion we have been lead to believe a lie…that we are born sinners, not perfect, not Co-creators. That we were created from dirt and will return to dirt once we are dead…then to go to our eternal reward or eternal damnation, but only if we believe the right way. Otherwise, we are condemned to burn in the fires of hell forever.

Think about the inconsistency of that statement above. If we have free will choice, how can we be condemned to hell if we commit a sin? A God of love would not condemn or bring us unspeakable wrath, or send us to kill others of his Creation. The lies are obvious.

No one is any more special to the Creation of the One than any other, so why would the Prime Creator send part of His/Her Creation to kill another? Prime Creator allows, it is mankind who does the killing, the harming, not Prime Creator.

The truth: Prime Creator created our Universe and us in perfection. He gave us free will choice. We have lived hundreds of life times to experience life in all of its many forms so we can grow spiritually since our soul essence goes with us each time.

Earth has a huge diversity of times, countries, cultures, religions, races, beliefs. It could not all be experienced in one life time, or even a dozen life times, so it was necessary for us to have hundreds of life times so we could live a full range of experiences.

We are not here just to learn, but to remember…Who We Really Are: that we are all Co-creators of God, who are eternal immortal beings who can not fail. There is no doubt in any of this. We cannot fail at the Ultimate goal. Yes, it might take us many life times to pull it off, but we cannot fail because it was created or planned for us to not fail…ever.

We can take as long as we want. Screw up as many times as we want. Play the game any way we want. Be anyone we want. Remember: free will choice.

By having our memory erased, we were given a severe handicap. But we were also given an inner knowing of the truth. By going within, we could find the real truth.

But through many years of programming, manipulation, learned beliefs, people stopped going within and instead listened to others who tried to tell them something different.

This increased our handicap of trying to remember Who We Really Are.

But think of it in another way, because we had so many handicaps put in our path to prevent us from succeeding, it has made the victory much sweeter, more glorious and triumphant because we won against such incredible odds and handicaps.

Had the road or path to remember been made much easier, the End Game would have been far less victorious.

Nothing worthwhile is ever easy.

Since duality is ending, we have lived this wide range of experiences. We can choose to continue in the illusion or go on to the next level of evolution, to a higher dimension and new and different experiences from what we have been doing for many centuries.

We are now in the time of sorting. Each person was given the choice of what they want to do next, remain in the illusion or ascend.

Since you are reading this, you are probably one of the ones who chose to ascend.

It’s time for Earth to Ascend, for Her to be healed, for all of the Creations on Earth to be healed with Love, not fear. It’s time for us to remember Who We Really Are and see that all of this has been an illusion for us to grow, to experience life in all of its many forms so we could be greater than we were before we began.

It’s also time for us to remember that we create our world with the power of thought, words and deeds. There are no victims or villains. We have been both, the victim and the villain. The Light and the Dark. Rich and poor, prince and pauper. We have done it all, so it is time to move on to greater things.

In order to learn how to be a Co-Creator with Prime Creator, we first had to learn not to be. There in begins the paradox…the Duality, the Yin and Yang. To remember love, we had to experience hate or fear. To remember honor…experience dishonor. To remember success, experience failure. To remember happiness, we experienced unhappiness. To remember joy…experience sorrow. To remember compassion, experience suffering. To remember being a hero or heroine, we experienced being the villain or villainess. To remember abundance and prosperity, we experienced lack and poverty. To remember a world of peace, we had to experience a world at war with itself.

We have done all that, it’s time to end the illusion, end the duality and remember Who We Really Are…Co-Creators with Prime Creator. Remember we are all part of the One.

Is it not said that experience is life’s greatest teacher?

Earth is a free will zone. What that means is anything is allowed…anything.

Unfortunately that allowed some outside forces to come in here and take advantages of that fact. Prime Creator allowed it because it was a free will zone.

Manipulation was done to our DNA, so our connection to Prime Creator was severed. We still had a connection through our spirit or soul, but through this manipulation, we were programmed or conditioned to look to others for answers. These answers were not truth.

Prime Creator sent messengers to us to help us remember: like Esu Immanuel “Jesus” and Buddha, Confucious, Krishna, Mohammed and others.

Prime Creator has again sent us help in the form of the Ascended Masters, those very same messengers are back to correct the manipulations of how their message got twisted and distorted from the message of love and peace that they originally gave.

The Galactic Federation is here to dispel the lies about the UFOs and the cover-up. And to keep us from blowing ourselves up, which we would have done, had they not been up there.

People from the Inner Earth will be returning to the surface to reveal the truth of our past.

You have been shown in other parts of this website how these messages were distorted. Love and peace was the message they all gave…all of them.

You were shown how we were lied to about our ancient history. Our ancestors, who were probably us, knew the connection to Prime Creator. But it later got severed by those who lived in fear who felt a lack, a need for power in their lives and felt they had to conquer, to control, to manipulate. They did this out of fear.

While they were creating fear for others, they were themselves living in fear. Fear that we would wake up, fear that we would remember of our true connection to a God of love, instead of the God of fear and wrath and vengeance they told us we had.

Even though the messages got distorted we still saw through the distortions and lies.

But even the ones who controlled us finally came back to love in our recent history and are helping us remember Who We Really Are. It was a journey for them to remember they are Part of the One of All That Is.

But by allowing this outside force to manipulate us, making it harder for us to remember Who We Really Are, it again made the victory of Light over Dark so much greater.

As Mike mentioned in the Introduction, we create our world, our reality, every minute of every day, whether we do it consciously or unconsciously.

Many people don’t even think about life, they just let life happen to them without being consciously aware that they are creating every part of it on some level.

We are basically made of three parts: depending on your point of reference. Id, Ego, Super-ego; or mind, body, spirit; or conscious, unconscious, super conscious. Father, son, holy spirit.

For the sake of clarity we will take the easiest definitions: mind, body, spirit (soul).

Thoughts are things that create. Words add power to that creation. Deeds add even more.

We experience two basic emotions, love and fear or varying degrees of both. When we focus on love, great things come into our world, into our creation. When we focus on fear, that too comes into our reality.

Since we are actually in 4th dimension now, our creations are happening much quicker now. It’s essential that we let go of fear and negative emotion because fear will not be allowed in the higher dimensions because fear causes chaos.

Our own past is proof of that.

When we think about bills, we get more bills to think about paying.

The Law of Attraction is working overtime now because we are in the higher frequencies now. Like Mike said, the Universe is neutral. It will give you whatever you want or focus on, be it good, bad or indifferent. If all you focus on or think about is negative things, then your whole world will be bombarded with negative things.

By changing your thinking or focus, you can change your world just by choosing love over fear. Remember…every thing negative in your life is based on fear of some type.

Since the frequency and vibrations of the Earth are increasing dramatically, everything that is not based on love is crumbling, falling apart, because fear is the illusion and it can not exist in the higher frequencies.

People in fear see utter chaos in our world today.

People who understand that the world is based on love, not fear, see the world in its true reality…a world that is changing, a world that is ascending to a higher dimension and frequency so that everything that is not vibrating at the love frequencies are crumbing right before our eyes. People who understand this are not fearful for we know this had to happen, that the old had to fall away to allow the new to be created.

What we are seeing crumble are things, businesses, institutions, governments that were not vibrating on the love frequency because they were all based on corruption, greed, and fraud which are all forms of fear…the fear of lack, of not having enough, so they have to take from others. Fear of not being in control, loss of security, fear of exposure.

Only love will remain, and that includes people who have been caught up in the illusion. It‘s time to come back to love, come out of fear for the world of fear is crumbling and will soon no longer exist, not even as an illusion.

Most of our world is and has been controlled by fear, rather than by love, for centuries. Clearing away this fear is part of the cleansing, the healing of the world that we need.

Even love was often used to control others and was rarely unconditional love.

Most people experience the first love in their lives from their parents, provided the parent or parents felt good about themselves and could pass the love on to their offspring.

If the parent or parents were emotionally and or physically abusive, not even then.

For many centuries it was considered a man’s right to abuse his wife and children and it was not anyone else’s business or right to interfere. That is now changing.

This learned belief got passed down from one generation to another, so it was accepted as just the way things are…men are abusers and women are victims of this abuse. It was just their lot in life so they suffered in silence, assuming it couldn’t be changed.

This too was something that everyone experienced, both being the abuser and the abused, until some inner knowing made future generations understand it was detrimental to both the abuser and the abused, and laws were put in place to prevent it, to stop it.

Some of it still goes on, but not as much as it did in centuries past.

More people have equal rights today than we had 100 years ago.

In years past, many families had a lot of children as unpaid hired help. It was not uncommon for women to have a dozen children. I know, I am one of 11, my father is one of 12, my mother is one of 13.

Most people have children today because they want them. Most of them are also not abused or forced to work in factories at a very young age, like they did a century ago.

Yes, some are still abused but not like they were in the past.

Children are still getting mixed messages from parents. How many times in a child’s life do they hear the words, “no”, “stop” “you can’t.” “I forbid”. In most cases those words are done out of love as a way to protect the child from hurting him or herself or others.

I was forbidden to do things as a child and teenager. I rebelled because I was not told why I was being restricted. It was done to protect me. I did not realize it at the time.

It’s the nature of most teenagers to rebel. It’s rare if they don’t rebel on some level.

They are lead to believe they must obey their parents every wish or be punished. Perhaps even disowned if the offense is something the parent can’t overlook or forgive like getting involved in drugs and or alcohol; commit a crime; marrying someone the parent disapproves of; or a girl getting pregnant without her being married. Or even believe a different way than the parent does.

The child does not have free will choice to do anything they want without their parents punishing them in some capacity or even disowning them. To not be forgiven.

This experience reinforces the belief of not being loveable if a person’s own parents put some type of condition to their love and punishes them if they do not obey them.

Romantic love. This one also usually carries conditions. A person has to do or be what ever the other person expects of them…or the love will be withdrawn. Again, free will choice is not allowed in this relationship either, to be able to do anything a person wants and not be punished for it, or have the relationship be destroyed because of it.

People fall in love all the time, or think they do. Most of the time they fall into lust. The love is as fleeting as the wind. The love is not real and can easily be shattered if the image of that love does something different or unacceptable.

Women are often considered the romantics, but traditionally men fall in love faster and harder than women do. Men are more inclined to love unconditionally than women.

When the love dies, or is lost, men are more often totally shattered by the loss.

Many men who have received Dear John letters during a time of war, have been so totally distraught that it caused them to allow themselves to be killed in battle because the pain was simply too deep to bear.

Many poems and songs are written about a lost love.

The movie of “Love Story” was one that affected many people, but it was based on a lost love. Not from dying, but leaving. In the book and story, Eric Segal had the character Jenny die of leukemia, but it was symbolic, of a women who left him…who was dead to him so he killed her off symbolically in the movie.

The Taj Mahal, which is one of the Seven Wonders of the World, was built by one of our Ascended Masters in one of his early life times to a lost love.

Here is another. No greater love can anyone show than to give up their life for another.

Romeo and Juliet, a forbidden love. The movie of “Sayonara“…another forbidden love. In both cases the couple committed suicide rather than live without each other.

The movie of “Titanic” is another story of tragic or lost love.

“Camille” is another one. “A Tale of Two Cities”. “Dr. Zhivago.” “Cleopatra.”

“Helen of Troy” A love that caused a 10 year war.

“Wuthering Heights” “A Farewell To Arms.” “Out of Africa.” “Ghost” all tragic love.

The love of a pet. Pets often show unconditional love more than people do. People don’t call dogs man’s best friend for nothing.

Most of the love stories in history or literature were based on tragic love stories. What real message does that send to people…that even deep special love doesn’t last.

In true unconditional love there are no conditions. It doesn’t matter what the person does, the love remains constant, unchangeable, it can‘t be destroyed.

Some parents have this type of love for a child, that it doesn’t matter what the child does, the love remains constant. But the child does not always know or feel it’s unconditional.

Love of friends. This is also conditional if the person does anything they want. These are often referred to as fair weathered friends. They are friends only if nothing special is asked of them or the friend does not think or behave outside the box

Love of self…primary. Too many people don’t love themselves enough and it shows in how they treat themselves, how they allow others to treat them. Or they treat others.

In order to be able to receive or show love, one must first be able to love themselves first. It’s an age old problem that if a person finds it difficult to love others or feel loved, it is because they don’t love themselves or they feel they are not worthy of being loved.

Goes back to the belief of being a born sinner, of not being loved by parents, or family. Not being able to find love after many failed relationships. Lack of love of self is very often the real cause.

Is it any wonder that people can’t comprehend a Creator who gives us free will choice to do anything we want and not be punished for it when we have been lead to believe by our own experiences with parents, friends, lovers, self, ministers, preachers, priest, rabbis, even the Bible that we are not worthy of being loved?

So even the concept of love carries a degree of fear…fear of losing that love unless we perform or behave according to someone else’s wishes, rules or commands.

That is not free will or unconditional love.

The belief of a vengeful, wrathful God, who punishes us if we disobey, is much more believable because it matches how we interact with the people in our lives from our earliest memories.

If our own parents, love interest, friends, even self, can’t love us unconditionally, how can our Creator grant us free will choice, and unconditional love if no one else can?

Can you see how truly liberating the truth actually is, that our Prime Creator has given us something that no one else in our world has given us…free will choice, to be allowed to do absolutely anything we want, create the most horrible crimes, and not lose that love, because we were created in perfection and this is all an illusion. It’s not real.

We came here to experience life in it’s many forms so Prime Creator will not punish us for doing what we were sent here to do, to experience life to its many forms, even if that life is being someone truly and completely horrible.

There is no sin, there is no judgment.

We can let go of the fear, because we are immortal beings who are loved for Who We Are, and that love will never die, never leave us, no matter what we do.

Everything horrible that has ever happened in our lives, or any life, we did it to someone else in another life time. It’s the duality, so we could learn both sides of it.

Remember…no victims, no villains.

We were all allowed to do these truly horrible things so we could learn, so we could choose to not do them. Not because we were forced to obey, but because we chose to do so. That is what the Prime Creator wants for us, for us to chose to do the right thing, not be forced to comply, which only causes rebellion and resentment.

We knew this when we entered the illusion, that it didn’t matter what we did, we knew we would not lose the unconditional love of our Creator.

That is why we agreed to enter into the illusion because we had that guarantee.

We chose to come here. We knew what the rules would be and have come back time and time again, because we knew we had free will choice and unconditional love. Who in their right mind would keep doing this over and over again if they knew they were going to be punished with hell fire and damnation if they screwed up, especially since half the lives we experienced were on the dark side of life?

The Creator couldn’t get anyone willing to risk the consequences if punishment in the form of hell fire and damnation were assured if the person lived one of the Dark lives.

You can’t have free will choice and punishment too. It doesn’t work or compute.

It’s not a matter of learning the desired behaviors, it’s a matter of remembering them and then choosing to be or do the desired behavior. Nothing is forced…even that is a choice. We all know what these things are. It’s not a matter of learning them. We were created knowing them as truth, yet in order to experience duality, we had to experience both sides of the coin, the good and the bad. Being the prince and the pauper. Hero and villain. Male and female. We came here to experience it all which took many life times.

We could hardly fully experience all these many different lives if we did not have free will choice to experience them fully, and suffer the consequences of man’s laws, not God’s unconditional love. Also the consequences of Universal Laws of cause and affect.

The Universal Law of Attraction…of attracting to you what you think about.

Many are now shouting for world peace. They are sick of war. That is a sign that we are learning to put war behind us. A way to help create peace is given below. I sent this to others and have included it here as well.

Our World At Peace

Dan (twoguns) sent me a special gift: a book, “Conversations With God.” It put a new perspective on many of the things we have been doing that is interfering in bringing home NESARA, First Contact, Second Coming, Golden Age of Prosperity and World Peace that are all right on the edge of manifestation. I want to share it with you and perhaps if we all do this collectively, it will bring them all the rest of the way home.

We are co-creators with God. We create our world. If we want peace, or NESARA, or money, or success, or love, or whatever in our world, then it is up to us to create that into our reality instead of waiting for someone else to do it for us. We don’t do it by begging, pleading or using supplication, but by creating it…first with a thought, then words, then deeds or actions.

Everything in our world is first created with a thought, a dream, a vision. Once that thought, dream or vision comes to mind, then send it out to the universe to create it.

Nothing travels faster than the speed of thought.

Then add power to that thought by the spoken word. Words of faith, belief, gratitude that your vision, thought or dream is a fact and is being created as the words are then spoken …making them a reality.

Deeds. Sharing this vision, thought, dream with others. Two or more in my name gives the thought, vision or dream more power than a single individual alone can create.

Whatever we really and truly want to create can’t be expressed as a want or a need or it will forever more remain a want or a need and not be realized because the Universe will give us what we say we want. If we say we want World Peace or NESARA, First Contact, Second Coming, Golden Age of Prosperity, any or all of them will remain a want. But to say we have any or all of them would be a lie, and both your soul and the universe know it’s a lie.

What to do?

It’s all in the wording. Gratitude is important. Thankfulness and total belief that World Peace, NESARA, First Contact, Second Coming, Golden Age of Prosperity are in fact a reality.

Try this instead. “Thank you, God, for bringing world peace into our lives to stay,” then know, believe, have full faith that World Peace is being brought into our world, instead of it remaining a want or need, and is never fulfilled.

Or expecting someone else to do it for us.

Add in what Sananda suggested. “We suggest taking this idea to the highest level of creative imagination possible. Add color and depth, touch and taste, smell and sound. Make this virtual reality a common one and watch your world change for the better. You all have a part to play and there is no longer any time for procrastination. Time and again we have emphasized the importance of using these tools to create change, we cannot overestimate the importance of it all. Pass these visions along through art and song, dance and love, the highest forms of expression.”

Then try this for another way of looking at NESARA, First Contact, Second Coming, Golden Age of Prosperity.

Thank you, God, for bringing NESARA, First Contact, Second Coming, Golden Age of Prosperity in our lives to stay.

Thank you, God, for bringing us love, harmony, peace, perfect health, joy, compassion, abundance, prosperity, forgiveness into our daily lives to stay.

Since we are Co-creators with God we are thanking ourselves and God while we create it.

Today, being Valentines Day, it seemed appropriate to be writing about love, and one of the messages that came through again from Diane of the Galactic Federation gives us a clearer picture of what our world is becoming through our own creation.


Diane 14-Feb-06

Each day brings forth a new set of possibilities, and the mass consciousness is continually changing. People have a tendency to react to what goes on around them, in a way that goes back eons of time when your strongest instinct was for your survival. With the threats that are now made against various countries that are pictured as a danger to you, it is easy to create an atmosphere of fear and distrust. The peace that you seek sometimes seems elusive and so far away.

There is however a great movement into the Light and it is destined to fulfill your dreams in the very near future. It quietly creates the conditions and opportunity to bring the changes that are necessary so that you can further proceed. As ever, your part is to keep your focus on the outcome and live that vision now. We tell you this often so that you are not distracted by the saber rattling of your leaders. The dark is making its last stand, but it is ultimately doomed to fail.

Have you considered how you will accept the far reaching changes that are due to happen upon Earth? The old is going to be replaced by the new, and already the new energies are bringing the first changes that are needed. In the gradual lifting up the old cannot exist in the higher vibrations and you will become aware of subtle changes that are occurring. On a grand scale you must first realize that the Earth must cleanse itself, and this will become more noticeable as Mother Earth carries it out. The Human Race is also greatly affected, as the time of choice has long arrived and two distinct paths are being carved out.

To those of the Light it is perhaps easy to choose the higher path, as you have been preparing for it for eons of time. However, there are others who are still held down by the attractions of the lower vibrations and they lack the preparation to carry them forward. One major problem for many is that you cannot take your possessions with through to Ascension, anymore than you could at any other time of transition. Ascension takes it a stage further, as some of those souls who are part of your family and friends, have made a decision to stay in the 3D and have no desire to move on as you do.

Ascension means a letting go of all that is of the earthly vibration, as it cannot exist in the higher vibration. It is a simple Universal Law that allows only that which is of the same vibration to be drawn together. Having regard to the rewarding changes that accompany Ascension, there is really no necessity to feel sadness or regret over that which you leave behind. You will have everything you could possibly need to maintain a wonderful quality of life, and want for absolutely nothing. In the higher vibration your needs will in any event change quite considerably to what they were. You will be a free soul able to create for yourself whatever you desire.

On Earth you have been used to acquiring wealth to pay your way through life. That will no longer be necessary as there will be no necessity for payment when all you need is freely available. Health is no longer a problem, as you will be in a body that has been perfected through the affect of the higher vibrations. It will no longer be heavy physical as you experience now, but light and not subject to any adverse affect from outside influences. All around you will be uplifting energies that will interplay with your own, and the most noticeable change will be in the feeling of well being, peace and harmony with all else.

It is as well that you begin to accept that all changes are for good, and trust in the higher forces that have your best interests at heart. Know that God’s plan is perfect, and that it desires for you all that is a reflection of the highest manifestation of God’s Love. Those of the Light have found a way to make the best out of their time on Earth. It has not come without sacrifice, but in their understanding of the higher truths they are able to put it aside.

Dear Ones, there is only one thing that you take with you when you leave the old Earth behind, and that is experience. Love has always been with you, but at times you have allowed it to sink in the morass of the dark energies. Personal love has grown into Unconditional Love, and this is a growth that takes place as you rise higher in the vibrations. Take the time to meditate on these matters and you will find yourself at one with such ideas. They should come naturally to you, as you are returning to the higher state that you left eons of time ago to enter duality.

This cycle is now drawing to a close and everyone has a designated level to go to, and none are left without direction and opportunity to continue their upward journey. Freewill is a marvellous gift that has allowed you to create exactly what you have wished. However this has applied to both the dark and the Light who have fought each other for supremacy. The Light has not always been used in its pure form, and sometimes has been passed off as such simply to ensnare people in the lower vibrations. You have been tried and tested in the fires of conflict and the power battles of Man. Now it is time for all of that to cease, and Heaven has decreed that the end of this cycle now takes place.

I am Diane of The Galactic Federation and like all of my fellow travelers I come to Earth to lift your spirits. I also desire that you see us as your Brothers and Sisters because you are us, and we are you. Our God is Universal and One of Everlasting Love, and our God is your God. We are not strangers, but from one big family that seeks to bring the Light to all forms of life wherever they are. Let us share our love together, and the joy and happiness it brings.

Thank you Diane.

Mike Quinsey.





“…How did this happen? Who’s to blame? Well certainly there are those who are more responsible than others and they will be held accountable but again, truth be told, if you’re looking for the guilty you need only look into a mirror.

I know why you did it. I know you were afraid. Who wouldn’t be? War, terror, disease. There were a myriad of problems which conspired to corrupt your reason and rob you of your common sense. Fear got the best of you…” – V FOR VENDETTA